Life

Relationship is a road to the mystery of life and love is the gel that binds the bricks of this road. It is at times very simple to feel the gel between the two and at times one keeps on rolling down the lanes of the whirlpool that surrounds both of them. If love and relationship was so simple to understand, it would have been possible for all of us to live in peace and harmony but it is the pain that comes as a package with love that makes the road to ecstasy of life more memorable. If ecstasy of love is what, one is truly looking for, then one must believe that it’s the relationship that adds fuel to it. Love and relationship are two sides of the same coin that cannot be separated, but yet are so far from each other that one side cannot feel the other and its this hidden secret of love and relationship that has compelled and forced people from diverse cultural and geographical backgrounds, to look deep into the hidden secrets of both of them.

Love, if believed, from the scientific perspective, is nothing but a combination of chemical events that is triggered by the brain. But if it is true then why do we not fall in love ever and why is it that we fall in love many times in our life. Here love should not be misunderstood with the boy and girl chemistry but with a broader perspective, in which one falls in love with nature, family and friends. But then it is a debatable topic and needs a deeper understanding of the matter. Love for the time being for all of us in the current era is nothing less then breath of life. It is the feeling that supersedes our every other thought. One who falls in love can feel, smell and even touch the feeling of being in love. Not only that he or she can listen to and talk to love. It is the power of love that forces us to act like that. Trust your senses then , if you have not felt this sweet pain ever and you will feel in love with, love.

It is love that marks the beginning of a relationship. But it should be understood that it is not only love that is the only factor that binds two people to take the path of a relationship, there are other factors too that play an equally important role. It is the sense of privacy that each one of us, who have ever fallen in love give to one other, and providing one another the sense of privacy becomes even more important due to the fact that privacy issues are further exacerbated now that people are not willing to live together for their entire lives, it is the control that one has over his or her mind, it is sense of being an independent person inspite of being in a relationship that is important to generate the sense of being in love. And it is the feeling of being in love that generates trust in one another. This trust is very important to create loyalty towards one another. And contrary to what most of us think, it is not love but loyalty to each other that forms the foundation stones for a healthy and prosperous relationship.

It is loyalty and trust that help in bridging the gap between love and relationship. And in order to live a happy relationship, it is important for each one of us to walk on the path of trust and loyalty. But then this does not undermine the importance of love in a relationship.

To live a relationship successfully in this world, you will have to understand all the aspects of love and relationships. You will need to focus your efforts on love, and not on worldly things. The central proposition, the defining goal, for any relationship in this world, is love and respect in a relationship.